I Am Scared Of Becoming A Father ” – Nollywood Actor Kalu Ikeagwu Reveals

Nollywood actor Kalu Ikeagwu has revealed his fears of fatherhood because he doesn’t want his child to grow up like him ..

The British- born revealed his fears come whenever he remembers how stubborn he was as a child..

In an exclusive chat with Entertainer , he said : “ Well , it is God who gives . Hmmm … I don ’ t want
to have more than I can handle. I am a bit apprehensive about being a dad because I know what I was like as a child and how unruly I was.

And in this age where there are a lot of outside forces that influence children , I am praying for the grace to be able to discipline my kids with love . So , I want as many as I can handle but I don ’ t want more than I can handle, let us say three kids. ”
The actor, who revealed he needed just four kids , then testified to the joys of marriage saying:
“ I think I went for the best , ” he says, as his face melts in a wrinkle of smiles .
“ When I prayed to God for my wife, I prayed for two things . I prayed that God should give me a wife who loves Him more than me and that she should be a companion to me .
“ I threw away all my pre - conceived notions because, before now , I used to be very picky ; she had to be very beautiful , look a certain way and all of that. Usually , I like dark - complexioned women ; slim , beautiful and everything . But I just told God that, if you want to give me fat , light complexioned and whatever state she is from, I am okay with it .”